How To Deal With a Drama Queen in College

How to Deal with Drama Queens in College

1. Stay far away from them

2. Don't buy into their Drama

3. Never ask of their emotional issues

4. Try to be polite to them

5. Set Clear Boundaries

6. Avoid their emotional game of pity

How to Identify a Drama Queen in College?

Drama Queens as their name entails are lovers of drama, they believe they can never go wrong with a little more drama and can therefore never be ashamed of this awful trait of theirs.

They instigate arguments in situations where it won't have ever gone wrong other things being equal.

To make things worse they drag others into their life's issue and cause unnecessary entanglements . They are the damsels in distress always trying and often succeed in getting the pity of others, which to be frank this is their ulterior to begin with.

They are most times narcissistic and obsessed with who they are and their ability to be able to excel in attaining the sympathy and involvement of people when necessary. They are critics and tend to make unjust fruitless comparisons, anything to curb the attention they so desire, they want to be in control and would do anything to get that feeling of authority.

Their joy lies in the unfolding of drama, as they get so thrilled and make no effort to resolve an igniting issue when they spot one. They also love the spotlight, make mountains out of molehills and always seem to have a bad day.

They are a time bomb ticking and are energy drainers.

Do these traits ring a bell, well you've being in contact with a Drama Queen.

Let's talk on how you can Deal with Drama Queens.

1. Stay far away from them; The ultimate way to deal with drama queens is to stay as far away from them as you can, trying to change them is a fruitless effort, and draining in all ramifications.

2. Never ask of their emotional Issues; Why ask, when you know they'd always have a bad day or something negative to say, don't let their persona rub on yours and leave you acting the same. Your mental health is really very important and when tempered with can show off on your physical health.

3. Try to be polite with them; Even if it inconveniences you, remain calm, endure, I assure you, you'd be glad you did.

Never be their avenue to curbing attention

4. Set Clear boundaries; Let them know their limit, make sure to state them out clearly, directly and boldly. Be assertive as well

5. Avoid their emotional game of pity; It works like magic, and is really hypnotizing. Rather than have to give pity every single time, spend time with supportive people and create a symbiotic relationship, thereby replenishing your emotional well as well.

Hopefully, a light bulb was lit in your head on how you can deal with a drama queen, good luck gurl. All the same avoid draining relationships.

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